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Phil DeLuca, MSW, LCSW
Relationship coach and author
Many people come to me during times of emotional strain, when life feels overwhelming and relationships are filled with tension and misunderstanding. My goal is to help individuals and couples improve how they communicate with each other, resolve conflict
more effectively, and build healthier, more meaningful connections.
With over 45 years of notable experience and having worked through more than 50,000 situations, I bring a depth of my understanding and practical insight to every session. My work here is to support you as you work through the challenges you’re facing.
Counseling Services
Whether you are feeling stuck in constant arguments or simply want to reconnect, I help you shift the pattern and restore clarity, calm, and connection in your relationships. I offer both online and in-office therapy for individuals and couples.
I take most major insurance as well as self pay. I offer both video and in office counseling.
Services We’re Offering
Solution-Focused Therapy for People
Who Need Real Support
Reconnect Before It’s Too Late
Reconnect and Heal
Therapy for Men

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FREE webinar from expert marriage therapist, Phil DeLuca, MSW, LCSW This 6-video series presents evidence-based techniques you can use TODAY to

Relationship Rescue
Are chronic arguments destroying your relationship? Is your health suffering from all the stress and conflict? Is your partner uncooperative?
Relationships, Couples, & Family Issues.
I focus on helping you build stronger, healthier connections
I can help you with: communication, affairs and affair recovery, separation/divorce
adjustment/resolution, marital/relationship counseling, codependency/pursuit and
distance, domestic violence, pre-marital counseling, dating issues, conflict and anger
resolution, and parenting and step-parenting issues. I also wrote a book and worked
with relationships that involved an uncooperative partner:
How to encourage their cooperation, how to inspire them to seek help, or join you in counseling.
What They’re Talking?
4.9 Average Rating
When my boyfriend and I went to our first appointment with Phil DeLuca I was blown away. What he taught us about front and back brain was simply amazing. We were displaying all the characteristics he was describing. Since we have been seeing him we have learned so much and are now able to get through arguments with much better results. We continue to improve and practice the things he has shown us. I am so thankful that we found him.
Phil is a gifted therapist that literally "goes beyond" talk to set wheels in motion for actionable rebounding. He presents coping, tailored solutions that work well through his humanistic approach and expertise. Phil has kept me accountable and become a trusted resource, advocate and friend to get me through my first crises at age 40. He really is amazing at streamlining the obstacles to tackle which feels so empathetic as he has gone through similar strife, crossroads and trust checks in our ever dystopian society.
We Welcome Every Journey Toward Healing and Overcoming

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600+
supported fulfilled clients

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guided by 950+ compassionate experts
Your story matters. Share it with us in a safe, supportive space. Let’s begin together.
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I help people build healthier, more meaningful connections. I work with:
- Married couples
- Individuals and couples who are dating
- Seniors
- Men’s issues
- Substance abuse
- Pornography addiction
- Stress reduction
- Codependency
- Narcissicism
- Family therapy
- Relationship issues
- Post affair recovery
- Life/work adjustment
- Health coaching
- Domestic violence
- And many more issues
I support individuals navigating life after divorce, a challenging yet hopeful time for growth and renewal. In a warm, collaborative space, I help clients rebuild with confidence and clarity. Sessions are available both in-office and online to meet your comfort and convenience.
The Solo Partner: Repairing Your Relationship On Your Own
The Solo Partner is the only book available that focuses entirely on relationships where one partner refuses to engage in the healing process. This includes situations where they deny problems exist, blame the other person entirely, or make empty promises to
change but never follow through. If this sounds familiar, then this book was written with you in mind. It offers more than understanding; it introduces a new approach that differs from traditional therapy. This method can still be effective even when only one partner is engaged, especially when conventional talk therapy has failed to bring meaningful or lasting results.
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What Our customer Say
Jordan Trader2025-09-25Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. The UNtalk method has been incredibly helpful in keeping my husband and I's relationship healthy. Highly recommend! Daniel Allen2025-06-16Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I highly recommend Phillip DeLuca at DeLuca Counseling, Inc. From the very first session, he helped me gain a much deeper understanding of how my body and mind respond to extreme anxiety and stress. What stood out to me most is that Phillip doesn’t simply offer surface-level reassurance — instead, he provides practical tools and insights that allowed me to better recognize and manage my anxiety. He takes the time to explain how both the mind and body are involved in stress reactions, which has been incredibly empowering for me. His approach is compassionate but also focused on real understanding and long-term progress. I’m very grateful for the skills I’ve developed through working with him. Andrew Dearmin2024-11-01Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil is an amazing listener that truly cares about everyone he works with. He has a great sense of humor, and a comforting presesnce. You can't go wrong with Phil! Emily Cordero2024-10-31Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Great for couples! We have seen improvements already with just a few sessions! Phil explains things with scientific evidence that help you understand what the reasons are for actions! Very solution based and helpful! We love how easy he is to talk to and relatable so you feel comfortable opening up. Marlon Gill2024-09-16Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil takes the time to understand individual needs and doesn't use a one size fits all approach to therapy. He listens, and has a welcoming personality. He also doesn't just tell you what you want to hear which is exactly what I needed. Lori Neshat2024-09-06Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. 5 stars for sure!! Phil has provided so much insight on a ground level of HOW our mind perceives emotions and what to do from there. It has been a game changer for us and we’ve never had a counselor teach the basic concepts that Phil has taught us! I can’t recommend him enough! Denise2024-08-23Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I highly recommend Phil. He is amazing very knowledgeable, understanding, supportive, a great listener, has a lot of wisdom and genuinely cares about his clients. Caroline Neill2024-08-22Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil has been my therapist for several years now. I sought him out through Psychology Today. It was important for me to have a mature and seasoned therapist, and Phil fits that bill with decades of experience. Phil has been instrumental in helping me with through my personal issues and has supported me all the way. He is trustworthy and knowledgeable. Phil strives to keep up daily with current issues and often recommends current literature. I would highly recommend Phil if you are looking for personal or couples therapy…he’s top notch in my book. Philippe Tronel2024-08-06Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. "I will pay Phil DeLuca the highest compliment I can give: he's a great human being. Phil is a compassionate, empathetic, and relatable therapist. I have always felt comfortable and, more importantly, hopeful in our sessions. He brings joy and shares his real-life experiences to each session, addressing the issues at hand. I believe his skill set is unmatched. I feel like I have an ally and a friend in facing my life situation." Grace Kezo2024-07-30Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Phil is great counselor. My husband & I were having lots of fight, we reached out to Phil ( only male counselor, in midland ) and he solved the issue. Because of him we are happily enjoying our married life.
